What To Do??

[geoffgulley]

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OK, growing up with a mother who's a therapist listen up:
Bro, you're bordering on obsessive compulsive here... Actually I think you crossed that border awhile ago but you need to let this go. Go back and read what you posted here... I have feelings, I want to be with her, I was shattered, I got jealous.... Honestly, I'm not trying to be harsh with you but it has to be said. She's not your wife and she's not having your baby. There are plenty of other attractive, single female's who you'll have plenty in common with out there.... Let this one go mate.

[daveman]

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married - that's a big No!

^^^ gotta agree with one. even if her marrage was falling apart. only could lead to trouble.

[lmmadic]

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yep, you're too late i'm afraid. You should of said something years ago when she was single. You didn't do that, ok that's history now. Move on she's not for you. It is actually a good thing she's going away it will make things easier in the long run

[thesightless]

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go out and get a penial enlargement surgury to about 13 inches and 4 inch circumference. then show it to her. she'll come around.

kidding.

if you like her enough, you will let her live her life as she chooses. kids are not one to screw up

[thesightless]

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There are plenty of other attractive, single female's who you'll have plenty in common with out there.... Let this one go mate.

yup. save some cash, go out and buy a girl a drink, and try to be funny.

[toasty]

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married and a kid, gotta let that go, esp. if the husband is a buddy of yours. This has trainwreck written all over it.

Best case scenario, she leaves him for you and you spend the rest of your relationship wondering if she's going to trade up from you, too, while helping to raise some other dude's kid. Is that what you really want? Realistically, though, you're just going to create an incredible awkward situation and put her in a real trick box.

My $.02, since you asked for people's thoughts...

[palmer]

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Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.

[ddr]

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yes i agree with all the above comments.
if you really like this girl then you would realize that she is happy with this other guy and let her be happy. no need to create drama between 3 people.

find another girl.

[DancingQueen]

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don't tell her anything. she's married and has a child. don't make shit difficult between you two, because she has started her life and is love with someone else... it's just not going to happen bro. find someone else. it'll be easier to forget about her once she quits.

I agree with pickle....she is married and has a family...you need to leave that alone...you have no right to interfere with her life.....you had your chance when she was single, but you didn't make your move.

[picklemonkey]

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honestly dude... she already knows. she's not stupid. don't make it more awkward than it already is.

[ler224]

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honestly dude... she already knows. she's not stupid. don't make it more awkward than it already is.

lol, probably true

[FM]

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OK, growing up with a mother who's a therapist listen up:
Bro, you're bordering on obsessive compulsive here... Actually I think you crossed that border awhile ago but you need to let this go. Go back and read what you posted here... I have feelings, I want to be with her, I was shattered, I got jealous.... Honestly, I'm not trying to be harsh with you but it has to be said. She's not your wife and she's not having your baby. There are plenty of other attractive, single female's who you'll have plenty in common with out there.... Let this one go mate.

that and you've well passed into the friendship bit since the beginning...once you're there, a woman married or not, won't come out of that no matter how hard a man usually tries to change it...that and trying to change it leads to a complete fuckup and mainly, the loss of said friend.

Furthermore, you waited WAYYYYYY too long; should have tried to get her right in the beginning....and probably wasted too much time when you could have gone for many a someone else...

Get over it and move on...the fact that she's leaving for a few months might help you as well in the end...

[hansh20]

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ey ey wait a moment, we dont know if the "married woman" wants something, you dont get that sentimental for nothing. there must be something.... theres allways something, anyway its a very hard situation, you should think twice before you do anything and you should know by this time if shes feeling something for you, the thing is that shes not single and you should try to respect that imo. btw shes having a baby in a very short time... that chages everything, i dont have kids, in fact the im too young for that i think, but one thing i know for sure is that "kids" changes every people life.

[ShawnD64]

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yea i have to agree the child plays a large part. imagine being the cause of a childs parents splitting. i am sure it is hard, i am in a situation where i think i have to bite my tounge and forget as well, and it is not easy. i do this as well as you probably do this as well.... when you want something very badly you convince yourself that things will work out, but when people outside hear it they dont see it the way you do....

[GerryD]

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One word -------Homewrecker