Friends that fu*k up a perfectly good evening...

[Yao]

I went out tonight, had a good time hooking up with a girl that was perfectly acceptable to have a one night stand with - and she was in to it as well, but: my best friends deemed it necessary to scream into my ear that I "had to kiss her right there right then" and asked "if we had determined how we were going to have sex yet" while she could easily hear it all...being drunken and all, they seemed to have lost all feel for tact or subtlety.

It ruined my evening. When I'm talking to a girl, relaxed, having fun, preparing for more (she could be doing that as well), I fucking HATE IT when my friends give me that drunken bullshit! Isn't it normal that at that point where you and the woman are apart from the group, they have the decency to leave you alone and let things take their course? Goddamnit, I actually gave up and went home, without her. Told her she's really cool, looks good and we kissed a few times, but nothing more. My best friends destroyed my evening by acting like fucking kids and treating me like some kind of moron that you need to hold hands with, in front of a girl FFS.

Any thoughts? Imagine yourself in this position...

[88Mariner]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

find better wingmen.

Seriously. I've got a group of friends who still act as if they're in high school when it comes to chicks. They're fun to hang out with when i'm not on the prowl, but I RARELY go hunting with them around. Instead, I've got two or three really close guys who know the game, the unspoken rules, and so on. They're the guys I go out to meet girls with. It's mostly an issue of balance. I don't know the intersocial culture of the Netherlands, but I would bet it similar to what it is here. Anything specific question, just PM me.

PS: go watch the movie Swingers for a good idea as to this.

[thesightless]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

this makes me laugh. you need to be better on your feet. fight back , make em embarras themselves, while she laughs at them.

[Yao]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

find better wingmen.

Seriously. I've got a group of friends who still act as if they're in high school when it comes to chicks. They're fun to hang out with when i'm not on the prowl, but I RARELY go hunting with them around. Instead, I've got two or three really close guys who know the game, the unspoken rules, and so on. They're the guys I go out to meet girls with. It's mostly an issue of balance. I don't know the intersocial culture of the Netherlands, but I would bet it similar to what it is here. Anything specific question, just PM me.

PS: go watch the movie Swingers for a good idea as to this.

Mariner: fucking spot in, I have 2 guys that are like that: if we go on a hunt it's perfect (and seldom do we end up without results too), but yes....these guys are totally like highschool kids when it comes to this, despite the fact that most of them have GF's. But Sean....there's nothing to fight back to when (1) they're drunk and (2) they come right into your face asking you wether you've determined how you're gonna have sex yet. Seriously man, the problem is that i'm better on my feet when it comes to women than they. She was annoyed as well, but made the implicit promise that this will have a sequel soon though

[thesightless]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

Q- you guys figure out where/how you're gonna have sex yet?

a- (look at her first, smile and wink) i dont know yet bro, your sister knocked reverse cowgirl out of the playbook last night.

if he hits you, he aint your friend. if he comes back, excuse yourself, tell him to shut it,and buy her a drink.

[Yao]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

lol...i'll try that next time. This doesn't take away the fact tho that anyone with a minimal sense of dignity in their ass would simply leave me alone instead of acting like an overexcited 12-yr old...

[88Mariner]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

reverse cowgirl? is that some sort of james zabiela interpretation?

[Localizer]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

yao, i'll be your wingman.

[Yao]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

I bet we'd have a good evening hunting Localizer, you're on .

And in retrospect...I should thank my friends for pissing me off, because now I try to remember some pretty face from yesterday all I see is a not-so-pretty face (still a well proportioned body tho) which I'm glad to not have seen when I woke up this morning

Coyote-moment avoided *wipes sweat off forehead*

[Mr.Big]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

well the best thing todo is just leave ur mates so they cant see you. Always suggest going somewhere quiet. If ur mates ring dont bother answering, its kinda a shitty thing todo but if you want some sexytime then it has to be done.

Although in saying that one of my mates is always ditching us to chase tail.. Its fairly lame .. I mean i get my fair share but alot of the time i have fun just getting pissed with the lads.

[Kamal]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

find better wingmen.

amen

[RiseandShine]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

next time, give them a glass of water instead

[superdave]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

I hate friends like that. They're either immature, jealous, or both. I had one friend like that who would give me a hard time about women at a club. He would say that girl is not attractive or a skank. Later on, when he thought I wasn't paying attention, he would start hitting on the girl that he was just talking trash about. It's a trick women use against each other.

I'd suggest leaving with the girl to another part of the bar or leaving with her to go elsewhere. Be aggressive with your friends if they don't stop and tell them to fuck off. If they don't like it, tell them to annoy someone else.

[rainman]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

how old are said friends?

Q- you guys figure out where/how you're gonna have sex yet?

a- (look at her first, smile and wink) i dont know yet bro, your sister knocked reverse cowgirl out of the playbook last night.

if he hits you, he aint your friend. if he comes back, excuse yourself, tell him to shut it,and buy her a drink.

*applauds*

[chrissy1687]

Re: Friends that fuck up a perfectly good evening...

well dude what ever happened to bros before hoes? yeah drunk friends are annoying as hell, but there will be more girls to have one night stands with. plus, i think it's more annoying when i'm out with my friends and one of them slips away from the group to get laid--it's like, we all came out to have fun with each other, wth is that?