My life is fucking over

[Johnnyboy]

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... to give me a chance to fix things. I have even offered to quit my job today if she wanted a commitment from me to fix things, I would quit my job and plan to move back to where she is or wherever she wants to go....

Don't know you Feather, therefore I will not give advice. All I will do is share with you what I went through… A situation where my ex asked me to stop my work and fix our relationship. It was 6+ years ago. I was working 70 hrs per week and she felt it was hurting us while she had no job, and couldn’t find one that would make her the money she needed or better yet the money I was giving her. Looking at the situation, it took my friends to show me that it was her that was hurting our relationship. She would try and crush everything that I did because she was selfish... I couldn't see it. I was in “love” My friends (I ask you to trust your friends) forced me to see the "light". I finally trusted them enough to look within and see for myself how bad it (SHE) was… Now years later, my life, my career and my new love (5 yrs together) could not be any better. It takes a lot of inward focus and attention, more importantly it takes good people around you (family, friends, co-workers, [MS] ) to trust and be there for you for support. Listen to the good people and trust what they see, not just what you feel… Good luck my man and stay strong!

[runningman]

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^^ nice one dancing.. that is some good advice right there.

[DancingQueen]

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On MSN with her now and I really don't know what to do. She wants to hurt me and feel everything like she is now, and wants us to be 'equal'.

She seriously said this?! Hun you do not need to be with someone who wants to hurt you. That is the last type of relationship anyone needs....believe me I know....I've been there. You get stuck thinking you don't deserve any better and this is what love is, but believe me its not....it is definitely a very toxic, unhealthy situation you are in or heading into if you chose to be with her.

I agree with Dhar_2 you need to seriously distance yourself from her and focus on you and your career. Please take a step back from this situation and take the time to regroup *hug*

[simonr]

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Hey Feather .... pics or STFU !

But in all seriousness, hope some sort of resolution can be reached. Keep your chin up mate.

[floridaorange]

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Feather it's your responsibility to take control of this, not hers. Do what you have to do.

[Life on Other Planets AKA Johns]

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Dont worry yourself Feather. take care of number 1 and that is u

[Dhar_2]

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let it go for now!

if she's out to hurt you its best to distance yourself.

no point ruining your interviews. these are oppourtunities for your future! take a break distance yourself from things and prepare for the interviews.

remember your are strong and you have something to offer them. your strenght in this situation shows your worth!

keep your chin up! if u need to talk you know where we are!

[feather]

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On MSN with her now and I really don't know what to do. She wants to hurt me and feel everything like she is now, and wants us to be 'equal'.

It's 12:20am I have an interview in 7 hours and another interview at 6pm.

All I have been doing is begging her for a chance, not tonight or tomorrow or this week but at some point in the future with some time behind us, to give me a chance to fix things. I have even offered to quit my job today if she wanted a commitment from me to fix things, I would quit my job and plan to move back to where she is or wherever she wants to go.

Fuck man. It has come to a point where, I just don't know, I mean, fuck, I don't know. Argh.

[Dhar_2]

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^ what kinda of bird are you???

you should always have something to say

are you sure your not a bloke?????

[DIDI]

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Not too big on advice but as usual there is some good stuff here. Good community

[runningman]

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stay strong buddy.. You know the sweet and sour story...

[coleby761]

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I believe we see our true character when faced with adversity and tough life decisions. Sounds like you've put your life on hold for a long time Feather. maybe time to take care of yourself instead of others. Just take it a DAY AT A TIME bro.

[feather]

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Thanks everyone, seriously. Just feeling a bit fragile right now sitting here at work.

[pipey]

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I didn't catch the post explaining what happened, but I get the gist. Keep your head up. I went through a particularly hard situation a couple weeks ago and had the same sorts of feelings. I'm not sure what's going on but I've had some really bad luck starting about mid-July. People around me are experiencing bad luck too. Things are finally turning around for me and I hope the same will happen for you, if it hasn't already.

man, i have had bad luck since april.. its been fucking terrible. and so have the other people i work with, since a psycho witch that used to work here "cursed" us all. i dont give much belief to that kinda shit, but its been a freaky set of circumstances

[Krystyan]

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hung on buddy.

maybe this is just the beginning... try to see the glass half full.