So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

[DIDI]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

^Did they see him @ Future Music Festival or Billboards??

[Dzone]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

He was absolutely brutal the other night!!

I got the same feedback from friend who went as well....
Cant wait to go and check melbourn night life meself

[DIDI]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

He was absolutely brutal the other night!!

[floridaorange]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

^for the record, my fiance thinks hawtin sounds sic...one of many good reasons why she's my fiance, lol

[DIDI]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

Omg I would've never thought that there would be a day when would actually say this.



*Plays, The Times They Are A-Changin - Bob Dylan *

???????

[Haziel]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

I know that feeling man , about 4 years ago i was dating this chick ,so we were in my car and I suddenly played Cattaneo at moonpark 2004 and the bitch told me to turn it down or change it , that was such a turn off .


We only lasted 3 months and that was the first big sign that this wasnt going anywhere

[Aleks_B]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

i have definitely dumped a g/f for not accepting my love for the bassy beats!

[Haziel]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

Hawtin Must admit he did impress me the other night!!

Omg I would've never thought that there would be a day when would actually say this.



*Plays, The Times They Are A-Changin - Bob Dylan *

[DIDI]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

^sorry didi that was man talk...trying to keep it simple and suggest mindsets and experiences that have seemed to work well for me

If a plan gets too complex something always goes wrong

Yeah I understand you have to keep it simple for the guys

Btw Kudos for taking the time to help her get to know the music !!

[Haziel]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

magda magda magda!!!

[floridaorange]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

^sorry didi that was man talk...trying to keep it simple and suggest mindsets and experiences that have seemed to work well for me

If a plan gets too complex something always goes wrong

[DIDI]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

dude, most women don't share passion for things like men do

Hmm I would have said women sometimes have different passions. They can also be just as passionate about the music they do love!!.
We women who do love edm can't really win . I was taken much more seriously when I was thought to be a guy If we dare get really enthusiastic we are accused of stalking

But one thing I do agree with , I doubt I could be in a long term relationship with someone who didn't at least respect my passion for the music.

So you are being open minded to listen to female dj's ??? I thought it was all about the music.

Btw You can love edm and still not love Hawtin Must admit he did impress me the other night!!

[Haziel]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

you'd have to talk to her about that, but i certainly could've done without that mental picture!!!

Oh fuck .... ok I pass

[Haziel]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

^ dude, most women don't share passion for things like men do, we are wired differently in that regard, not to mention dj'ing is a male dominated arena/industry. anyway, if your still wondering wtf to do (which by the number of new bumps I assume you are) I recommend being subtle about it. Start w. the classics, stuff everyone liked(s), she's not going to be a Hawtin fan overnight. Also drop a few Chloe mixes and Sandra Collins from time to time and during the parts of the mix that your both enjoying, tell her "this is a female dj" you know, she will appreciate that your open minded, etc and will become more interested. A few livesets, some dancing, really shouldn't be too difficult but it can take time...I remember it taking a year or more before my gf's would start buying EDM albums and asking to go see certain dj's on their own. I would say that it was probably easier for me back in early 2000 because of the buzz EDM had around it at that time.

thanks bro thats a good approach to it , I think you are right about giving them the easy stuff to listen at first , also mentioning thats a female dj you are listening to, might help .

[Bender420]

Re: So I dumped my girlfriend for EDM

pics or stfu

you'd have to talk to her about that, but i certainly could've done without that mental picture!!!