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[speciale]

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did you give her an engagement ring?

[chanty]

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Hmm...may I ask how old she is?
Just doesn't seem like good enough reasons to want to move out. Those issue's are solvable and not that "urgent" to warrent moving out imo.
I wonder what the real reason for her decision is?
Best of luck to you Pipey!

[pipey]

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I don't get it, what kind of problems does she have that entails her moving out after you got engaged? You mentioned her wanting to meet new friends and getting her finance sorted? Are those the issues you see or are they what she told you, cos they don't sound like they're grounds for moving out.

I mean, if I got engaged to a girl, and she told me she needs to move out cos she needs to meet new people and get her finance sorted, I would seriously wonder where she is in life and why she agreed to the engagement in the first place.

Do you think this engagement is freaking her out now that she's had a long time to think about it? Could she feel she's not ready for it hence her need to get 'other shit in her life' sorted?

possibly, but im not sure that us is the problem... thing is, she needs more indipendence i guess, its probably a good thing to be honest, even tho its hard. I think that one of the things is that she cant see the forest from the trees, if shes unsure whats wrong with her life, then maybe this will make her see that she either wants to be with me or she doesnt... or maybe, she wants to be with me, but get her own place for a while... she moved straight out of her parents house to my house when we started living together, and she dosent really know how to do alot of thigns - thats why it may be good for her to try and get a place - that way she can maybe appreciate all the things she had and things might not seem so bad... heres hoping anyhoo.

[feather]

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I don't get it, what kind of problems does she have that entails her moving out after you got engaged? You mentioned her wanting to meet new friends and getting her finance sorted? Are those the issues you see or are they what she told you, cos they don't sound like they're grounds for moving out.

I mean, if I got engaged to a girl, and she told me she needs to move out cos she needs to meet new people and get her finance sorted, I would seriously wonder where she is in life and why she agreed to the engagement in the first place.

Do you think this engagement is freaking her out now that she's had a long time to think about it? Could she feel she's not ready for it hence her need to get 'other shit in her life' sorted?

[DIDI]

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She probably knows that already But it's still not a good idea, she may not like you spreading her personal life all over a public forum Don't worry, we can keep secrets

[Dhar_2]

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^probably not the best idea.

she'll think you cant think for yourself!

[Kamal]

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email her a link to this thread. she'll know how much you feel for her.

[pipey]

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i really have no idea what is going to happen... who knows, its the first night that she is staying there apparantly, but she may change her mind... i had to be all like "look, please make a decision, either go or stay..." in a nice way, and shes like, yeah , i have to go an see how i feel... sigh. oh well... who the fuck knows.

[Dhar_2]

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more like run for the hills! she be a crazy lady!

[Miroslav]

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It is all one giant fucking test. Better not screw up the test either. My ex-girlfriend decided she wanted to move out after being together for two years. I was like WTF, but I thought I should let her have her space. I didn't want to be that cray ex-boyfriend so I just went with the flow. However, a few months later we are hanging out and we get into a crazy argument. She said I didn't fight for her and if I really loved her I would have asked her not to go, which I did, but she said I didn''t try hard enough in keeping her. She said she couldn't believe how laid back I was and how that meant I didn't love her. Now we are in some crazy limbo and I feel like every move I make, every phone call, etc. is like one giant chess game. But ya...if I were you and if you really feel strongly about her I would tell her how you really feel. Unless she left, because your are just way to needy...Then you should give her, her free space. One big test... girls are crazy...don't screw it up...

That's emotional manipulation at its finest! Sounds like the kind of person who will manage to "get you" no matter what you do - and it really has to do with issues inside them, not you. I'd steer clear and move on...

[DIDI]

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It is all one giant fucking test. Better not screw up the test either. My ex-girlfriend decided she wanted to move out after being together for two years. I was like WTF, but I thought I should let her have her space. I didn't want to be that cray ex-boyfriend so I just went with the flow. However, a few months later we are hanging out and we get into a crazy argument. She said I didn't fight for her and if I really loved her I would have asked her not to go, which I did, but she said I didn''t try hard enough in keeping her. She said she couldn't believe how laid back I was and how that meant I didn't love her. Now we are in some crazy limbo and I feel like every move I make, every phone call, etc. is like one giant chess game. But ya...if I were you and if you really feel strongly about her I would tell her how you really feel. Unless she left, because your are just way to needy...Then you should give her, her free space. One big test... girls are crazy...don't screw it up...

That's your girl, I don't believe it's his!! They are engaged!

[floridaorange]

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^that's because she's crazy. lace up your running shoes tight and run...

in all seriousness some people are more prone to drama than others, its just their nature. If you don't like the games and tests, find a chick who is more mellow, they're out there, and plenty of'm too!

[srbbnd]

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It is all one giant fucking test. Better not screw up the test either. My ex-girlfriend decided she wanted to move out after being together for two years. I was like WTF, but I thought I should let her have her space. I didn't want to be that cray ex-boyfriend so I just went with the flow. However, a few months later we are hanging out and we get into a crazy argument. She said I didn't fight for her and if I really loved her I would have asked her not to go, which I did, but she said I didn''t try hard enough in keeping her. She said she couldn't believe how laid back I was and how that meant I didn't love her. Now we are in some crazy limbo and I feel like every move I make, every phone call, etc. is like one giant chess game. But ya...if I were you and if you really feel strongly about her I would tell her how you really feel. Unless she left, because your are just way to needy...Then you should give her, her free space. One big test... girls are crazy...don't screw it up...

[floridaorange]

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Hmm, so he's actually trying to do her a favor by keeping the chain on her, evidently from the trailer (preview).

[dusk]

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Did not recognize Christina Ricci in that at all...